It appears as we age we start to understand a little bit about life. It's about the people we spend our time with, the way we treat others and the laughter we share as we get older. It's about that bond and the feeling you get when your with someone. Sometimes, it's just there and even sitting in silence is a wonderful experience.
Sometimes, even that special bond isn't enough to keep someone special.
I'm not sure I have lived my life the way I should have. I should have stopped dating long ago perhaps? I'm told by friends and family that I'm alone because I don't settle but little do people know it's because I HAVE settled that I sit here in the middle half of my life by myself.
If I would have had a better standard of quality of person I dated I would still have someone by my side. Maybe.
It seems most people I have dated tend to think that after 2-4 years it's always better with someone else. But like clockwork, after some time with someone else they realize what they had in me wasn't so bad after all and they end up on my doorstep.
I don't know about you, but this chick thinks it's pretty romantical to have some guy come back for her. I mean, the courage it takes to admit they were wrong? That's hard.
Problem is, they never really mean it. They think they do but they never do WHAT IT TAKES to make it work out.
They are still stuck with 'the grass is always greener' issue only this time, I'M the other girl. It feels like you're being rejected all over again once you realize they are full of shit and aren't leaving the other chick. I suppose some chicks would think it's great to be the other girl to the chick you were dumped for but I think it's super shitty.
It just shows what a skank the dude is after all. It's like all that matters is HIS feelings and no one elses. Does the dude stop to think that maybe the chick he is with deserves better? Or maybe the chick he is professing his love too was doing just fine without him???
Why do dudes think it's OK for chicks to share them? Why wouldn't they end what they have before coming back? I will tell you why.
They are fucking cowards!! Heaven forbid they are ALONE for two minutes without someone stroking their cock and their ego telling them how fantastic they are and how much we can't live without them.
The thing is, if someone loves you then you should be enough to have all of them - ALL of the time. Sharing isn't an option. No amount of talking makes up for real action and time spent together.
My most recent experience with a guy has nearly convinced me to never date again. In my 25 years of dating experience, I think I have reached my tolerance for the crap people spew out of their mouths all in the name of love.
Love doesn't hurt and anyone telling you it does is selling you a load of bull shit. Like, the kind that sticks up the whole damn neighborhood when you are driving by.
No amount of Febreeze can take that stench away.
Sometimes, even that special bond isn't enough to keep someone special.
I'm not sure I have lived my life the way I should have. I should have stopped dating long ago perhaps? I'm told by friends and family that I'm alone because I don't settle but little do people know it's because I HAVE settled that I sit here in the middle half of my life by myself.
If I would have had a better standard of quality of person I dated I would still have someone by my side. Maybe.
It seems most people I have dated tend to think that after 2-4 years it's always better with someone else. But like clockwork, after some time with someone else they realize what they had in me wasn't so bad after all and they end up on my doorstep.
I don't know about you, but this chick thinks it's pretty romantical to have some guy come back for her. I mean, the courage it takes to admit they were wrong? That's hard.
Problem is, they never really mean it. They think they do but they never do WHAT IT TAKES to make it work out.
They are still stuck with 'the grass is always greener' issue only this time, I'M the other girl. It feels like you're being rejected all over again once you realize they are full of shit and aren't leaving the other chick. I suppose some chicks would think it's great to be the other girl to the chick you were dumped for but I think it's super shitty.
It just shows what a skank the dude is after all. It's like all that matters is HIS feelings and no one elses. Does the dude stop to think that maybe the chick he is with deserves better? Or maybe the chick he is professing his love too was doing just fine without him???
Why do dudes think it's OK for chicks to share them? Why wouldn't they end what they have before coming back? I will tell you why.
They are fucking cowards!! Heaven forbid they are ALONE for two minutes without someone stroking their cock and their ego telling them how fantastic they are and how much we can't live without them.
The thing is, if someone loves you then you should be enough to have all of them - ALL of the time. Sharing isn't an option. No amount of talking makes up for real action and time spent together.
My most recent experience with a guy has nearly convinced me to never date again. In my 25 years of dating experience, I think I have reached my tolerance for the crap people spew out of their mouths all in the name of love.
Love doesn't hurt and anyone telling you it does is selling you a load of bull shit. Like, the kind that sticks up the whole damn neighborhood when you are driving by.
No amount of Febreeze can take that stench away.
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